Some Mothers Day Poems to celebrate the day, I keep tucked in my kids' baby books.
First, from The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran, whom I first learned of in college and whose words have such resonance...
"Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself. They come through you but not from you,and though they are with you, yet they belong not to you. You may give them your love, but not your thoughts, for they have their own thoughts. You may house their bodies but not their souls,for their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams. You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you. For life goes not backward, nor tarries with yesterday." ADOPTION POEM
Once there were two womenWho hardly knew each otherOne you do not rememberThe other you call motherTwo different lives shaped to make yours oneOne becoming your guiding starThe other became your sunThe first gave you lifeAnd the second taught you to live in itThe first gave you a need for loveAnd the second was there to give itOne gave you nationalityThe other gave you a nameOne gave you the seed of talentThe other gave you an aimOne gave you emotionsThe other calmed your fearsOne saw your first sweet smileThe other dried your tearsThe age old questions through the years;Heredity or environment - which are you the product of ?Neither my darling - neitherJust two different kinds of love!Bittersweet, yes, but love is the underlying emotion, deep love that is hard to define. I still remember every moment as if it were yesterday, the first moments of seeing my son and later my daughter. Joy and the awe of the strength of the birth parents to choose us to parent their precious children. Through it all, hard and easy times, I am grateful for the opportunity. (We are grateful, I speak for my hubby too as I see it in his eyes as he remembers the special moments in our lives as a family).
Well, I chose a winner randomly with the random generator web site, and the winner of the Vintage Needlebook is:
Jessica at
HappyTogether...I am so glad, she has been a loyal follower, and a real friend! Watch for it in the mail, Jessica, God bless you on Mothers' Day!
I know my contests are only seen by a few, but I love the idea of making more blogger friends and sharing ideas, I think it is cool to give back to a few here and there.
One more gift to share, my mothers' Chocolate Fudge Cake Recipe, the birthday cake that is asked for more than any others. It is rich and chocolatey of course. I made cupcakes to celebrate Mom's Day, and had to top with the special fudge frosting. Yum!
Here it is, print and keep near the Baking Cabinet!
Chocolate Fudge Cake3 sq. unsweetened chocolate3 eggs2 1/4 c sifted cake flour 1 1/2 t vanilla2 t baking soda1 c sour cream1/2 t salt 1 c boiling water1/2 c butter2 1/4 c firmly packed light brown sugarMelt chocolate. Cool. Grease and flour 3 cake pans. Sift flour, baking soda and salt onto wax paper. Beat butter till soft in a large bowl. Add brown sugar and eggs; beat with mixer at high speed until light and fluffy, 5 minutes. Beat in vanilla and cooled melted chocolate. Stir in dry ingredients alternately with sour cream, beating well with a wooden spoon after each addition, until batter is smooth. Stir in boiling water. Batter will be thin. Pour at once in to prepared pans. Bake at 350 for 35 minutees.Chocolate Fudge Frosting4 squares unsweetened chocolate 1/2 c milk1/2 c butter 2 t vanilla1 lbs confectioners sugarMelt chocolate. Cream butter and add melted chocolate. Gradually add confectioners sugar and beat till smooth. Add milk till nice and creamy. Add vanilla.